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15
Sep

My first gay friend to become a gay pornstar

It’s really the first time when one of my gay friends goes so far :). My dear Paul is almost a gay pornstar now, and I’m damn proud about it.

I’ve met Paul 1-2 years again, after Jon - another gay friend, met him through gay dating services. I used to laugh on gay dating sites and all the gay matchmaking concept, but he proved me wrong when I saw him with Paul.

Paul is one of this guys that has “artist” written all over him, lol. He’s a bit weird, he’d say he’ll meet you in 20 mins and then he appears 3 hours later and when you look at him angry he says “what, I got here too soon?”, he paints and takes photographs, likes Mac and Ipods, lol, and all the stuff you already know.

Jon met Paul through a dating site

In fact you can see it on he’s face, his long hair and jewelry Paul is cute as hell and he has such a funny character that’s impossibile not to love him. When he gave the links to the site that promotes him (QSolo), I was WFT were you thinking, but seeing the quality of the material and of the entire site, I really understood.

So, just like Jon met Paul (and they’re still together), have faith in gay dating services and gay dating sites, as they really work. I mean, nobody will assure you that you’ll find your soul mate in seconds, but with sites like Fling or ManLuvthat offer almost endless possibilities, it’s really hard NOT to find someone

Meanwhile, you can also visit Paul’s full photo gallery (10 more free photos). Enjoy!

And something about QSolo site, as they allowed me to use their photos :):
“Forget the crappy plain looks of all these performers inside countless XXX gay sites. QSolo brings you a selection of extra hot young males who make a difference! Perfectly beautiful, carrying a large load of masculine appeal, personality and seed to spill, they will take your heart and cock by storm. Check us out for tons of hi-quality photo and video scenes featuring new-born XXX superstars!

QSolo keeps rocking on and on! Remember, we keep adding more stunning XXX male models which you’d die to run your tongue all over. They got style, and they got beef – see them make use of both! Rush inside and watch our newfound superstars pose and play on tons of exceptional quality movies and photos. New stuff added weekly, and don’t forget about the interactive features!”

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15
Sep

What is Gay matchmaking?

Gay Matchmaking is any process of introducing gay people for the purposes of dating and mating, usually in the context of marriage.

In some cultures, the role of the matchmaker was and is quite professionalized. The Ashkenazi Jewish shadchan, or the Hindu astrologer, were often thought to be essential advisors. In cultures where arranged marriages were the rule, the astrologer often claimed that the stars sanctified matches that both parents approved of, making it quite difficult for the possibly-hesitant children to easily object - and also making it easy for the astrologer to collect his fee. The tarot has also been employed by some matchmakers.

Since the emergence of the mythology of romantic love in the Christian world in medieval times, the pursuit of happiness via such romantic love has often been viewed as something akin to a human right. Matchmakers trade on this belief, and the modern net dating service is just one of many examples of a dating system where technology is invoked as a magic charm with the capacity to bring happiness.

The acceptance of gay dating systems, however, has created something of a resurgence in the role of the traditional professional matchmaker. Those who find gay dating systems or services useful but prefer human intelligence and personal touches can choose from a wide range of such services now available.

The concept of Gay Matchmaking is also used in the business world and known as B2B Gay Matchmaking, Investor Gay Matchmaking, Business Speed Dating or Brokerage Events. In contradiction to social networking solutions, real meetings between business gay people are in focus. Trade fair organisations e.g. find this concept an added value for their exhibitors because it gives them the opportunity of advanced planned meetings.

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15
Sep

What is gay anonymous matching?

Anonymous gay matching is a matchmaking method facilitated by computer databases, in which each user confidentially selects people they are interested in dating and the computer identifies and reports matches to pairs of users who share a mutual attraction. The purpose is to allow gay people to initiate romantic relationships while avoiding the risk of embarrassment, awkwardness, and other negative consequences associated with unwanted romantic overtures and rejection. The general concept was patented on September 7, 1999 by David J. Blumberg and DoYouDo chief executive officer Gil S. Sudai, but several websites were already employing the methodology by that date, and thus apparently were allowed to continue using it. United States Patent 5,950,200 points out several potential flaws in traditional courtship and in conventional dating systems in which strangers meet online, promoting anonymous gay matching of friends and acquaintances as a better alternative:

Human relationships are often fraught with difficulties. In addition, human beings are risk-adverse. Often, even when two gay people want to initiate first steps in a relationship, neither person takes action because of shyness, fear of rejection, or other societal pressures or constraints. Various systems exist that help gay people meet each other. For example, computer dating services allow gay people to view video tapes or pictures of prospective partners or to choose common areas of hobbies. Two gay people are introduced only if both agree with the idea. Unfortunately, in such situations, neither person has actually met the other when they are finally introduced. Neither person has ever met the other, and there is a certain amount of shyness and fear of rejection when they first meet in such a situation. In addition, both persons must initially approach the dating service. For some gay people, such an action can also be embarrassing. What is needed is a safe, simple, confidential, and non-judgmental way for gay people to reveal their true feelings and interests without risk of embarrassment or rejection.

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